no such thing as a wrong decision

the haze is very bad today in vancouver – i’m not sure if it’s caused by the forest fires, or just the regular hot weather/bad air thing that happens in the summer. the north shore mountains are just a blur though – and my sinuses have been burning for days.

i realize that vancouver legendarily has a very high quality of life for its residents – but i’m starting to wonder with no cheap housing and uber-poor air quality – how that can be? is it that other cities are infinitely worse? in that case – how can any city be considered liveable if every day is a slow poisoning and working people are forced to commute 1-2 hours each way?

oh yes, more reasons to vacate the city….
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salmon and blackberries

had dinner last night with jess, sharai and megan – at what is likely the last dinner party i will host at my apartment. i can’t imagine three more important or lovely people to have shared this occasion with.

we feasted on wild chinook salmon (caught by my friend george), with a reduced blackberry/rosemary/balsamic vinegar sauce (this turned out amazingly well) – couscous with fresh basil and organic greens and tomatoes. we drank wine and then gin and tonics and stayed up late and tipsy with conversation and alcohol.

i haven’t had a lot of chances to connect with the women in my life lately, because we are all busy and i am moving, and there are always a million other things that seem more important – but last night reminded me of why girlfriends are the most important relationships in terms of sustaining the self. they are there to remind you of who you are and what’s important in your history in the face of new relationships – to ground you in a community of support when you are struggling to make decisions – to listen in a way that only women know how to.

i am so thankful i have these women in my life – and i hold out great hope that eventually we will all live close to one another again – if not on the same land, in the same area – so that we can continue to support each other and the projects we are working on.
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on being impulsive

i decided this morning when i woke up that i wanted to see nathan – hence – i am leaving tomorrow after work to drive down to the gifford pinchot national forest where he is doing his research to spend the weekend. i have three days off, and although i have to pack for moving, feel i have plenty of time to complete this task when i return.

it is a six and a half hour drive (if i don’t run into any really bad rush-hour traffic), and my little car is generally good to go – so it’s a road trip for me…. back monday mid-afternoon.

violins, children and maple cream ale

i had a fine evening last night at the home of giles and darcie (and munchkins) – hanging out with them and our friend norman nawrocki from montreal.

for those of you who don’t know – norman is a fine and gifted musician, writer, actor and all around trouble-maker – and is responsible for my favourite album of 2002 (the debut of DaZoque), among other works both provocative and beautiful. he plays the violin like a madman, giving me something to look to for inspiration – and about once a year i get a chance to hang out with him when he is visiting from montreal.

so last night we gathered at the lore krill co-op to drink of some fine home-made beer by giles (maple cream ale – a fine beer he has brewed), listen to a violin recital by jacob and kira (small violins – big ideas), and get a sneak preview of two of the new albums norman is about to release (i’m excited and you should be too!)
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prisoner's justice day

it’s prisoner’s justice day today – so if you know someone inside the prison system make sure to let them know you are thinking about them and say a blessing for their safety inside the machine.