Lawn-free living.

We eliminated another patch of our backyard lawn this weekend with an extension to our brick patio and a new bed dug in for tomatoes and flowers alongside it. Next weekend we’re planting the shade garden alongside the house, and that small patch of turf will meet it’s end as well under a layer of cardboard and mulch. That leaves a tiny strip running the length of our yard that separates the berry patch from the raised veggie garden and most of that turned into mud during our studio construction in February. We’ve decided that instead of replanting it with heavily fertilized lawn re-starter, we’re going to go with some Easy Care Lawn Cover from West Coast seeds that includes a mix of low-maintenance ground cover plantings such as daisy, rye, clover and white yarrow (which we already have in abundance in our yard).

While the latest work of the weekend is not yet at the state I want to share pictures of (it’s dismal and wet here, and although the new patio is in, everything around it is a muddy mess) you can see pictures of our fall-time lawn eradication project here.

It wasn’t like lawn eradication was my plan when we moved into this house a year ago. Not really. But as you can see from the photo-set above, it wasn’t like there was much in the way of landscaping going on in the backyard (nor the frontyard, but that is a project for another year). Not only that, but I have a serious interest in all kinds of plantings: food, flowers, perennials, herbs  – and a pretty small backyard! While I confined myself to gardening the edges last summer, I realized quickly that our family pretty much confines itself to the patio space when lounging outside and otherwise the lawn serves as little more than a bathroom for our dog. Which I think is true of many houses which have a usable deck or patio, the lawn is little more than a focal point around which planted beds are arranged since it is easier and more comfortable to set up table and chairs on a level surface that connects to the house in some way.

It became obvious in any case that in order to get the growing space I craved for my many gardening goals the lawn was going to have to go under one piece at a time. We’ve thus far used both the method of covering up (newspaper, cardboard, landscape fabric, mulch) and the dig method for the smaller bed areas where we are going to be planting right into the ground. I would highly recommend the cover-up method if you are putting in raised beds or if you are able to go with compost layers, etc. in order to create a new layer of topsoil for planting in. Much easier on the back and you won’t be fighting pesky grass roots forever as the layers on top will kill the turf underneath.

I had never really thought about the environmental toll of lawns before, mostly because I have never been big into watering or fertilizing or “greening” lawns at the houses where I have lived. Not to mention my whole refusal to mow. But I guess most people aren’t like that and there are some quite shocking statistics on the environmental and financial costs of lawns out there (such as the 10,000 gallons of water every 1000 square feet of lawn takes to keep up every summer). With the arrival of Chafer Beetle in  Vancouver, lawn care experts are recommending even more fertilizing, watering and pesticide spraying to keep the grubs under control…. which just seems nonsensical to me. Why lawn at all? Is it really the easiest ground cover to take care of (as my father avows) given watering restrictions, chafer beetle, dandelion seed blowing around and all the other issues that might arise?

I suppose if you’re just looking for basic soil erosion control and you don’t care if it browns during the hot months, then you’re got a pretty low-maintenance yard for those who want that. But for the true gardeners out there – it seems criminal to give up so much potential food, flower and native plant growing space over what is essentially a status symbol from days gone by.

Mushroom Workshop

Alder logs innoculated with shitake and oyster mushroom spores.

On Saturday I drove out to Langey and participated in a shitake and oyster mushroom growing workshop with Bill Chalmers who runs  Western Biological. For three hours myself and a small group of people (mostly from East Van) hung out in and around Bill’s workshop where he taught us the mushroom lifecycle, talked about the process of culturing (he gives a 2-day intensive workshop  on this subject), and then showed us the art of drilling into somewhat fresh alder logs to innoculate with mushroom spores. Above is a photograph of my morning’s efforts, plus I came home with plenty more prepared material to insert into more logs – if only I can find some! Green alder, cut within the last two months – anyone got some?

In any case, these logs are going to live on the north side of the house within the shade garden I am building on that spot beside my worm composter. Shaded a great deal of the time, nice and moist…. and if I make sure they don’t dry out over the years, I should be able to get several fruit harvests from just these two logs. I’d like to put a few more logs down if I can find them, but I’m not holding my breath on that. Will document how these work out here – but can highly recommend the basic workshop Bill gives on this subject. He is incredibly knowledgeable, friendly, and gives a good inexpensive introduction to mushroom cultivation. You can also buy starter kits from Bill when he has them made up. He’s a little hard to track down because he doesn’t have much of an internet presence, so if you are interested, please leave a comment and I can email you his contact info.

Social dancing and awkwardness.

Brian and I have been taking dancing lessons lately – Wednesday nights for an hour we go and learn the basics of west coast swing – which is one of those social dance forms involving lots of spins and pushes and underarm passes once you get the standard pattern down….. (here’s a short improv example of some champion dancers – suffice to say we’re not that good…. yet). We just thought it would be fun to learn some form of partner dance so that when we are out somewhere and there’s dancing we could do more together than just wiggle our hips in time to the music (though that’s pretty good too) – so we’re doing it and fumbling through the first faltering steps with as much humour as possible. What else can you do really? Dance, like anything, is simply a matter of practicing until comfortable….. right?

What I find both interesting (and a little dreadful) about our class is that we are required to switch partners every few minutes or so. We could opt out and stay together because we come with a ready partner – but most people don’t, so it’s really only fair to participate in this way, plus the idea is to gain comfort dancing with more than one person. Everyone is a different kind of lead and follow, different body types and styles of movement etc. It’s pretty easy for me to dance with Brian because we’re so comfortable together – not as straight forward when it comes to dancing (and communicating) with a total stranger. So on one hand, partner switching is positive. On the other hand, with the exception of Brian and one other guy who is having a good time, the men in this class are some of the most socially awkward people I’ve ever met – to the point of real rudeness (and I think in one case there’s some deep-seated misogyny going on). For the most part they won’t make eye contact, small talk or even crack a smile – preferring instead to look over my shoulder while literally pushing me around the dance floor. I get that they are the lead and all, but woah, we don’t need to dislocate my shoulder do we? There’s one guy there who has no idea what he’s doing – none – and yet proceeds to “dance” confidentally, flinging me around out of time to the music while never making eye contact or relaxing his face which is frozen into a grim mask for the duration of the class. There’s another who frequently stops to lecture me about what I’m doing wrong (I anticipate the lead too much – big deal – you’re not the instructor and it’s not your place to put me down mid-dance).

Now I get that people take these classes in order to get a skill that enables them to go out and meet someone – possibly on a dance floor – one day. And I also can understand that some of these men are lonely, and perhaps uncomfortable with being so close to women if they aren’t used to it. But what I want to tell each of them is their inability to dance is *not* their impediment to meeting women. It’s so much more basic than that. Small talk, a bit of humor, a smile or eye contact. These are the basic building blocks to meeting people and having them want to continue the conversation. And it depresses me a little, because there’s at least one who I can tell has a real struggle with basic connection. Like he has never been able to connect with other people – male or female – and this class is just one more frustrated attempt to figure out why.

I recognize that perhaps they aren’t trying all that hard with the women in the class because we are just “practice” dancers like them…. but really, if you were looking for social dance practice, wouldn’t you want to practice the other parts too? Like light conversation? I can always hear Brian chatting each of his new partners up at the end of the room he’s on and from what I observe, most of the women respond really positively to and seem to be having quite a bit of fun despite his occasional confusion in the steps (he tells me there are a couple of women who are difficult to dance with because of their social awkwardness but it isn’t the majority)…. and I think that’s the point really. We’re learning to dance because dance is fun and social. The minute someone gets a death-march stare on their face I’m thinking “can we switch partners now?” so I can get past feeling I am part of this experience that seems so burdensome to my partner-of-the-moment.

It’s good practice for me in any case. Practice making small talk with people who don’t respond. Practice being gracious at the end of each dance no matter how tortured I feel. Practice keeping time even when my partner can’t. But I will be honest and say that each time I switch back to Brian I am so damned grateful and happy that it’s all I can do to stop myself from falling all over him and being smoochy. Goddamn I am lucky to have him! And we do have a great time when we’re dancing together.

Back from the weekend.

Well, there it is. The new studio almost finished (awaiting last bits of electrical) and a backyard very much in progress. It’s all a bit messy at the moment, but for the last three days we’ve been working on the garden and studio and at the end of each day there has been noticeable improvement. I’m just waiting until we get our patio extension done (next weekend) before I reseed the grass out back with a wild mix which I hope will take off this spring. I blogged extensively about my weekend’s projects at Among the Weeds and posted a few photos on Flickr as well. I can hardly wait until things are really growing out there again and there is less of a mud-pit effect going on.